Modelling your identity in life is a project without escape. An individual has a choice in what should he or she extent as a conformed representative of a socialisation process. In earlier days, a handshake and one's word were more binding than legal documents. Taking advantage of other people’s weakness and suffering was out. Modelling identity and morality today depends on situation and what we're doing, and is mostly to know how our identity is psychologically constructed. Studies have demonstrated that society, culture, manners and language could have succumbed to a vulgarisation and proletarisation process in some extent, and that a minority, who has a strong, self-confident sense of style, virtue and purpose, lead the growth phase of civilisation. Ordinary people follow along through attempts to learn from influential people lives. Other studies have showed that women benefit more than men do from having same-gender role examples of success. While a female role model with a similar career path could enhance a woman’s self-esteem, a man's feelings about himself seem more unaffected by role models of both genders.

For sure people have to make more conscious decisions and judgements about their own way of living. There is a significant lack of authoritative good role models for, especially, teenage girls growing up and younger women. Many girls and younger women today have got such an embarrassed identification and self-esteem that they must re-learn to be more proud and conceited. They can't say, "But I know who I am, and that's always a satisfaction," like The Darning Needle in H.C. Andersen's little amusing tale. The media hesitates to report on and shape the breaking news on the heroines of our daily life in a positive respect. In common, media prefer economics, men's sport activities, war reports, catastrophic accidents, terrorism, scandals and doubt of trust. This has an extreme negative impact in a longer term on kids, teenagers and young people's identification, apprehension of satisfaction and joyful life appetite and affection. More conscious focus, discussion, description, thinking and voting on good prime role models and what these prime models are (and absolutely not the scandalous opposite) will possibly help us in a different, more positive and essentially other direction.

For these reasons remain role and family models important concepts, although it should not mean someone that a person must imitate or be alike. A conscious choice of a role or family model serves as an identification and navigation point when individuals make there own personal route through life. Role and family models general direction is more likely to be shaped within tradition, family values, peer pressures, at the employment centres by parents, friends, teachers, colleagues and others. Who is your favourite among 30 top women role models? Learn, vote and get some inspiration from them on how they e.g. sublimate their desire, affection, emotion, satisfaction, jouissance and talent capabilities. Maybe want to suggest your own role or family model?